If you read my post about the importance of self-care, you know that I am a firm believer that taking care of ourselves is essential to being good counselors. It’s crucial to employ our self-care tactics during the school year, but as school counselors, we get a wonderful gift of time over the summer to refresh and recharge before the next school year.
This summer, I tried to be as productive as I could be {check out how I use the summer to get prep work done for the next school year} while still getting together with friends and family I sometimes am “too busy” to spend a lot of time with when school is in session. I also see a client in a private practice setting once a week, and I teach group exercise classes on the weekends. This left my summer schedule packed with things to do, and even though most of them were good, enjoyable things, I realized halfway through June that I still had not taken much time to take care of myself.
For me, in order to truly care for myself, I needed to get away and spend sometime alone. {That way, the natural caregiver in me wouldn’t be tempted to focus only on everyone around me.} As a result, I decided to travel completely alone for the first time in my life, something that both frightened and excited me. I was able to do exactly what I wanted to do when I wanted to do it, giving my body and mind what they needed.
It was a short trip, only lasting 2 days, but it was a great way to recharge and give myself some needed self-care. So, what did I do on my trip that made me come back feeling so much better? Well, I had the coffee I love every morning, perused several museums, biked around the memorials and monuments, went shopping, saw a hilarious comedy show, read a great book, ate amazing Indian food, took plenty of selfies, and got some much needed sleep in an extremely comfortable king sized bed. Even though those things may sound simple, I felt shiny and new when I returned home 2 days later.
Whether you take a trip, get a massage, meditate, or simply take a few minutes alone every day, please do something to care for yourself before the school year starts. Your mind, body, spirit, and students will thank you for it.